Breanna Perry

I got back from Rochester, NY earlier this week, after an amazing weekend DJing at Girl Jam. I ended up being only one of three DJs for the weekend, betwixt two other fabulous gentlemen, Michael Gamble and Mike Thibault.

This weekend was the first I've had where the bulk of the DJing work fell to me, and was the first event not-my-own where I DJed a competition. I'm pleased to say that I got several compliments from competitors afterwards, approving my choice of songs.

In fact, I got several compliments throughout the weekend on my DJing, from attendees who hadn't ever heard me before, from organizers, from instructors, and even from those who had seen me as a DJ at other events (mostly in Ohio). It felt great to be in such a prominent role and be praised for my skill in it.

The compliments, plus the DJing stresses that I faced and overcame throughout the weekend, made for one of the most satisfying weekends as a DJ that I've had in a long time. The closest comparison would probably be in 2008 at Oberlin's Jazz Dance Festival, which was essentially my first major out-of-town time as a DJ--and also a weekend full of compliments.

I've been lucky enough to be DJing for a couple years now and to not have had any horrible experiences as a DJ. I've found that the common thread in my most memorable DJing, though, is compliments from the other dancers at an event. Everyone likes compliments, of course, but I also feel that comments--especially specific and direct ones, which are most helpful--put me more in touch with what the dancers on the floor want to hear.

What to take from this? Well, in my experience, DJs don't respond well to requests for specific songs (how many of you have heard the joke about the guy that asks the DJ "Hey, can you play that Jump, Jive, and Wail song?"). On the flipside, they WILL respond well to praise and your actions. So be sure to let your DJs know when they've done something that pleases you!